I've really been enjoying the Miscarriage Association's # say # dontsay campaign. I have experienced pregnancy loss, and people really struggle to find the right words. That's OK, even those with the sweetest hearts can be flummoxed in these situations, you know the intention is kindness when you hear: "just try again" (when you, yourself, know full well, this isn't an option) However, to some people miscarriage is like having a minor illness, something you will get over in a ... day or two. My GP at the time was of this ilk: "ah well. It happens. Off you pop home now and flush your baby down the loo." It can be bewildering to be in so much pain and sadness, but have people react as though it was nothing. My boss couldn't even understand why I needed time off work. It doesn't matter how long you are pregnant for, you dream and feel such utter love for this being the minute that blue line appears, to lose that at any stage is horrific and heartbreaking, to then face the shrugs and "get over its" of people who haven't been there, sucks even harder. So if you are wondering what to say, go check out the Miscarriage Association's page. Long Sleeve Prom Dresses 2020